Things That Matter to Us - Part 1(Dreaming2Fly)

we dont think we get enough chances to write about the things that matter to us.. so tonight we are going to spend that time doing just that.. and anyone who wants to contribute within our system will add their own in Parts added onto Our Dream to Fly Blog..

as for me, K or Dreaming2Fly there are many things that matter to me..
-for one our entire Systems within do.. and all within them..
-my birth children..
-the people who supprt us like:
-our t, C..
-our community support provider, M..
-our case manager, K..
-our online friends who are so kind to us..
-the forum i run matters to me and its website..
-the blogs i write in matter to me..
-the well being of my birth family matters to me, even though we may not always see eye to eye..
-my cats matter to me, a whole lot and the proper care for them..
-helping others matters to me..
-helping others understand and learn about depression, MPD/DID, flashbacks, SRA, PTSD, triggers, self-injury, coping skills, DBT, ways to self- soothe and more matters to me..
-help stopping child abuse, domestic violence, and rape completely matters to me..
-finding happiness matters to me..
-learning when to reach out to others and when to do it on my own matters to me..
-learning when to trust and when not to matters to me..
-becoming more comfortable with my surroundings matters to me..
-learning to accept i cant do it all the time, that i need breaks..
-learning not to judge myself so harshly..
-learning to give others a chance..
-learning to accept that others really do care matters to me..
-learning that just being "me" is not so bad, matters to me..
-learning that its ok to say how i feel and what im feeling or thinking matters to me, even thought it can be really hard at times..
-learning that its ok to be angry matters to me..
-my hardest one is trying to learn not to shut people out when im having a hard time.. this does matter to me..
-its hard to say this.. specially right now when things are so bad.. but... i think my life matters to me.. im trying for it to matter to me..
-it matters to me if the sun rises and sets each day..
-if definitely matters to me if its cold outside..
-people who are ill, sick or dying matter to me..
-people who are sad, alone, lonely, grieving, hurting, lost, scared/afraid, or in any type of emotional pain matter to me..
-learning to be a better person matters to me..
-learning to get better matters to me..
-learning to overcome where i am now... it matters to me.. i dont like being stuck..
-learning to accept help.. matters to me..
-learning to listen matter to me..
-moving forward matters to me.. i know i may stumble back sometimes.. but we all do.. then we dust ourselves off and continue onward..
-finding the light in the end and not staying in the darkness matters to me..
-learning from your own lessons.. and not repeating them.. thought it may not be easy at first.. but you'll get there.. it matters to me..

im sure there is plenty more things that matter to me.. but this is my list so far.. if i think of more i will make another writing for myself with a Part 2-Dreaming2Fly

K (Dreming2Fly)